So you are talking to a prospect about, say, an annuity product. The conversation goes something like this:
You: “Mr. Prospect, you may want to consider an annuity as part of your investment mix.”
Prospect: “An annuity?! I just read those are terrible investments. Why would you recommend that?”
You: “They are NOT terrible investments. Where did you read that?”
Prospect: “I don’t remember, but they said annuities came with higher fees and more risk than people think. Are you going for fees on this?”
OK . . . let’s stop the tape for a moment. Do you see where this is heading . . . the conversation is quickly turning confrontational with the potential of even getting hostile. Here is how a psychologist would handle this situation using a very simple but powerful technique called “validation.” Read More
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